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THE POTTY PARTY 🎉

Start Strong, Stress Less

Let’s Ditch the Pressure and Cue the Confidence

  

RESERVE MY SPOT

You've been told to "wait until they're ready."

So you wait. And wait. Watching for signs. Second-guessing every moment. Meanwhile, that potty seat is gathering dust and your 2.5-year-old is showing zero interest in giving up diapers.

 

And in the meantime?

  • You're spending $200/month on diapers

  • You’re explaining to preschools why your child isn’t trained yet

  • And you’re wondering what every other parent seems to know that you don’t

Â đŸšœ Want Gentle Steps That Make a Big Splash? 

From first sits to first accidents, you’ll learn how to begin potty training in a way that’s respectful, playful, and empowering—for both of you.

SAVE MY SEAT

Why "Readiness Theory" Isn’t Helping

Traditional potty training advice has it backwards.

We've been taught to wait until kids show interest. But here's what really happens:

The Readiness Trap

❌ You wait for your child to show interest (but why would they care about something they’ve never done?)

❌ You assume resistance means "not ready" (when it’s often a reaction to pressure)

❌ You keep waiting... while your child gets more attached to the comfort and convenience of diapers

Reality check: Most kids labeled as "not ready" are actually just reacting to the traditional pressure-filled approach.

đŸ„‡ Potty Prep: The Smart Game-Changer Every Toddler Deserves✹

 

I noticed something interesting as a mom of four—my younger kids practically potty trained themselves. Why? Because they watched their older siblings and picked up the cues way before we officially started.

That sparked an idea.

I realized we could give every child that same head start—with or without older siblings. So I created a step-by-step pre-potty training method to build confidence, curiosity, and cooperation before the first sit.

And with over 35 years as a pediatrician, I can tell you—this gentle, proven method has helped over a million families ditch diapers for good.

Real Results You’ll See (Yes, Really)

Your toddler walking to the potty on their own because it feels like their idea

Fewer accidents, more independence — even if they’ve resisted before

Mornings that don’t start with a diaper change (and end with a battle)

Less Googling, more high-fives.

Your preschooler proudly tells their teacher, “I go pee on the potty now!”

 🎉 The Potty Party  

đŸ—“ïž Date: June 26, 2025 (We’re saving you a front-row seat)
🕐 Time: 1:00 PM EST — just enough time to grab a snack, a sippy, and your spot
đŸ’» Where: Live on Zoom — cozy up from your couch or kitchen counter
💰 Investment: $45 for non-members 

✹ Free for Big-Hearted School of Parenting members (because perks are fun!)

đŸ“ș Yes, There Will Be a Replay!

SAVE MY SEAT đŸšœ

 

🎁 What You’ll Walk Away With (aka Your Potty Party Favors):

✹ Freedom from “readiness” anxiety
No more second-guessing. You’ll leave knowing exactly what signs to look for—and what to do while you wait.

🎈 A low-pressure prep toolkit
Support your toddler’s autonomy with playful, stress-free steps that build confidence before the first sit.

🛑 Resistance-prevention strategies
Avoid power struggles before they even start. Because potty training doesn’t have to be a tug-of-war.

đŸ—Łïž Scripts + troubleshooting tools
Know exactly what to say (and what not to say) with step-by-step guidance tailored to real life.

đŸ’Ș Confidence to begin—on your timeline
You decide when to start. Not a checklist. Not your neighbor. Not your Aunt Susan.

🩾 A plan that makes your toddler feel like the hero
Because they’re not the problem—they’re the main character in their own potty story.

 👋 Hi, I’m Dr. Cathryn Tobin

I’m a just-retired pediatrician with over 35 years of experience, a trained midwife, and a mom of four (now grown) kids—and yes, I’m a proud grandma too! 💕

Over the years, I’ve been called a “toddler whisperer,” but really, I’m just someone who believes deeply in parenting with empathy, science, and a little bit of playful rebellion.

I’m also the author of Toddlers Made Easy and the creator of parenting tools that help you raise emotionally strong, confident, connected kids—without power struggles or pressure.

💬 Here’s what I want you to know:
Your child doesn’t need to want potty training.
They need to feel curious and in control.
That’s where real success begins.

Let’s make potty training feel less like a battle—and more like a celebration.

đŸŽ€ Ask Me Anything—Yes, Even About Poop

Bring your questions, your worries, and your what-if’s. Let’s clear up the confusion so you can feel calm, clear, and ready to go.

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