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For parents raising toddlers & preschoolers

What if bedtime, bathtime, mealtime, any darn time didn't have to be a fight?


Learn the big-hearted way to get your kids to listen—without yelling, nagging, or losing your cool.

✅ Scripts that work when nothing else does
✅ How to hold boundaries AND stay connected
✅ The mindset shift that changes everything
Yes, I Need This!

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Feeling overwhelmed… and wondering if it’s just you?

✔️ Everyday moments turn into battles—getting dressed, mealtimes, leaving the house, even potty time.

✔️ You want to stay patient, but tantrums, meltdowns, and endless negotiations wear you down.

✔️ You feel embarrassed by your child’s behavior—and ashamed for feeling that way.

✔️ You know these early years matter, but you’re unsure how to make the most of them—and worried you’re missing your chance.

After 40 Years as a Pediatrician, Here's What I Know To Be True:

Your toddler isn't giving you a hard time—they're having a hard time.

I'm Dr. Cathryn—pediatrician, midwife, parenting author, and mom of four who raised 4 kids without yelling (well...mostly) or bribing.

I've helped over 1.2 million parents on Instagram with pocket-sized advice that cuts through the chaos.

No tricks or hacks—just understanding how toddler brains work.

When you understand why they act the way they do, everything shifts. You feel calmer. Your child feels safer. And you actually enjoy these crazy, awesome years.

It’s the reason I created the Big-Hearted School Of Parenting — for you 

 

Most parents do what they've been told is "gentle":

👉 They validate the feeling — "I know you're sad…"

👉 Then they set a limit and try to hold it — "But I won't let you jump on the table." 

Sounds great in theory, right?

But here's the problem: gentle parenting assumes toddlers can think their way through big emotions.

They can't.

A dysregulated toddler's brain goes offline — so the boundary you're trying to set gets lost or turns into exhausting negotiations.

Big-Hearted Parenting works WITH your toddler's developing brain, not against it. 

We don't just expect a toddler to do what we've asked. We know their brain is busy growing. We set the limit and realize, sometimes kids just need help moving along.

Instead of: "I won't let you jump on the table." (hoping they'll listen) . . .

. . . you calmly step in and say: "Your body wants to jump! This looks fun — let's jump on the floor instead." (while gently but firmly helping them down) 

This isn't being "soft" — it's being smart. You're lending them your regulated nervous system while their brain develops.

Bedtime in Under 30 Minutes

Every time you guide your child through a moment like this, you're actually building their future self-calming skills.

When gentle guidance meets resistance, stay calm and consistent: "I can see you need my help with this" — and move them along.

Pro tip: Catch it early. This approach works best before the full meltdown hits.

It's immediate guidance over endless negotiations. 

The result? Dressed and out the door in one try. Bedtime in under 30 minutes. 

Because when you work with how toddlers are actually wired — everything shifts.

Yell less, Connect more  

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What You Get Inside The Big-Hearted Membership?

Meet Your On-Demand Parenting Expert

Dr. Cathryn AI offers instant, trustworthy guidance for the moments that leave you stuck.
Whether you're navigating a public meltdown, a bedtime standoff, or just wondering if something’s normal—you'll get clear, thoughtful answers in seconds.
No more guilt. No more guessing. Just support you can count on, right when you need it.

 

Weekly Parenting Wins—Made Simple

Expert strategies you can absorb while your toddler naps or you wait in the pickup line. 

 

 

Done-for-You Scripts

The exact words to use in tricky toddler situations.

 

 NEW – Daily Pocket-Sized Pep Talks.

Every morning, you'll hear from me directly—a quick audio pep talk in Slack with the encouragement you need before the chaos starts. A reframe. A script. A reminder that you're doing better than you think. Because some mornings, you just need to hear someone say: "You've got this."

 

Exclusive Resource LibraryStruggling with a specific parenting moment?

Our on-demand content library gives you instant access to clear, easy-to-remember strategies for handling tantrums, setting boundaries, managing transitions, and more.

Search by topic, behavior, or challenge — and get practical, big-hearted guidance in seconds, right when you need it most.

LIVE and On-Demand Workshops

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Workshops

Learn with us LIVE or on your time. Start and stop at your own pace.

The Potty Party

START STRONG, STRESS LESS! 🎉 🎊

Let’s Ditch the Pressure and Cue the Confidence

🧻 A big-hearted, step-by-step way to kick off potty training (even if your toddler shows no “readiness signs” yet)

This workshop flips the script—so you can stop waiting for signs of readiness and start prepping for the big day.
No fighting. No sticker charts. Just a proven, pediatrician-backed method that works.

💫 LEARN:

  • Spot the real green lights (and gentle red lights) so you know when it’s go-time—or when to keep dancing in diapers a little longer.

  • Just like any great party, prep makes the magic happen. These 5 steps will help your toddler build body awareness and curiosity without pressure.

  • From first sits to first accidents, we’ll cover how to begin in a way that’s respectful, playful, and empowering—for both of you.

The Tantrum Crash Course

Ready for fewer, shorter, and way easier tantrums?

This mini-class goes beyond managing meltdowns. You'll learn how to support your toddler through big feelings and teach the skills they need to handle frustration, impulse control, and emotional regulation — the building blocks for lifelong confidence and connection.

Imagine how this could feel...

Bedtime takes 20 minutes, not 2 hours — end the "one more story" negotiations

Get out the door without screaming matches over shoes, coats, or car seats

Meltdowns last 3 minutes instead of 30 — you'll know exactly when to step in

Your child uses words like "I'm frustrated" instead of throwing toys at their sibling

You stay calm when they're losing it — no more yelling back or feeling guilty later

Public tantrums don't make you want to hide — you'll have a clear game plan for grocery store meltdowns

Unlock this workshop — and so much more — inside the Big-Hearted School of Parenting.

WHAT PARENTS ARE SAYING

“Bedtime used to be chaos. Now it’s calm — for both of us.”

– Renee T

“I don’t freeze or freak out about tantrums anymore. I know exactly what to do.”

– Allie K.

“No more bribes or battles at dinnertime. Just wins (finally).”

– Josh A.

"Before meeting Dr. Cathryn, tantrums ruled our days. Now, I finally understand my toddler’s big feelings — and we both feel calmer and closer."

— Marg L.

"I was drowning in potty training advice. Potty Prep gave me a clear, gentle roadmap — and my daughter is now proudly diaper-free!"

— Penny W.

"These big-hearted tools work like magic. I feel like such a better parent!"

— Sofia Y.

"I hated feeling like the 'bad guy.' Learning the big-hearted approach helped me set firm but loving boundaries — without the guilt trips."

— Florence G. 

"Bedtime used to be a battlefield. Now, using the EASY-DOES-IT method, bedtime is (mostly!) smooth and sweet."

— Amina S.

Introducing

Big-Hearted Parenting

What You'll Learn Inside The Big-Hearted School Of Parenting:

💛 Big-hearted parenting is the glue that strengthens the bond with your child.

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WHAT PARENTS ARE SAYING

 "After 3 months of tantrums at the grocery store, I used Dr. Cathryn's PREP strategy, and we made it through the entire trip without a meltdown!"

- Jamie T.

"The 'connection before correction' technique changed everything. My daughter actually listens now without the power struggles."

- Michael W.

"What I love most is seeing how these strategies are helping my child develop. His vocabulary has exploded, and he's becoming so much more independent and confident."

- Tarika J.

CALM, CLEAR, AND CONNECTED

Join today and go from:

Feeling frustrated & reactive → to knowing exactly how to respond

❌ Losing your patience → to staying calm, even in tough moments

❌ Worrying you're doing it wrong → to trusting yourself as a parent

❌ Managing behavior → to nurturing development and potential

❌ Surviving toddlerhood → to creating a foundation for lifelong skills

 

And best of all? You'll start seeing results within days.

CLEAR. CALM. CONNECTED. CLEAR. CALM. CONNECTED.

Big-Hearted Pricing

It's less than $1/day

$23/month

Stay as Long as You Want, Your Price Will Never Increase

 

Love it—or get your money back within 14 days. 

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The Big-Hearted School of Parenting

Membership For Parents of Kids Age 1 - 6 Years

  • 24/7 Access to Dr. Cathryn's AI
  • Expert-backed Masterclasses
  • Exclusive Weekly Content Drops
  • Potty Parties: A gentle, fun way to potty train—together!
  • Comprehensive On-Demand Training packed with parenting strategies to support all your needs
  • Private Non-Judgmental Community for Members Only 

These tools are rooted in science and 35 years of pediatric experience — and they actually work in the messy, real-life moments of parenting.

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FAQs:

3 Ways This Will Make Parenting Easier

Finally, Get A Full Night’s Sleep

No more lying next to the kids till they doze off.

Kicking And Biting? We Can Fix That.

Big-hearted ways to handle big feelings.

 Stop Tantrums Before They Start.

Without all the yelling, pleading, or power struggles.

The Big-Hearted School of Parenting

Membership For Parents of Kids Age 1 - 6 Years

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