Nightmares versus Night Terrors: How Can I Tell Them Apart?

My youngest son began having night terrors around age 5. He’d wake up in the middle of the night shrieking, with his eyes wide open. As I tried to comfort him he became combative. Sound familiar? Knowing how to differentiate nightmares from night terrors is important as they are handled differently.
Let’s look closer:
NIGHTMARES:
- Occur towards the end of the night
- Child has a bad dream to report
- Child recognizes you
- The little guy seeks comfort
- Your LO is awake when she cries out
- Cry is familiar
- Child is coherent but agitated
- Child is aware of the bad dream
- Child calls out after a nightmare
- Child is reluctant to go back to bed
NIGHT TERRORS:
βοΈOccur within the first few hours of sleep
βοΈChild has no bad dream to report
βοΈChild doesn’t seem to recognize you
βοΈChild resists comfort
βοΈThe little guy isn’t totally awake when he cries out
βοΈCry may sound weird
βοΈChild behaves strangely
βοΈChild has no recall of events
βοΈChild cries out during the night terror
βοΈChild returns to sleep
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